Nine out of 10 children aged between eight and 16 have viewed
pornography on the Internet. In most cases, the sex sites were accessed
unintentionally when a child, often in the process of doing homework,
used a seemingly innocent sounding word to search for information
or pictures. (London School of Economics
In the case of the eleven year old girl it appears that the alleged rapist was a friend of the family, trusted by the child and that he had been sending her porn on emails, showing her child porn on his computer and finally molesting her on hikes and other places..
What are we doing to protect our kids from this kind of thing. Do we as parents know who our kids are interacting with on email, Facebook and chat rooms? Did you know that filtering programs like Wisechoice have features that will allow you to view online conversations of kids? Is this an invasion of their privacy? Absolutely! Are we giving privacy rights for eleven year old to interact with predators? If we are then we are misguided.
It is our job as parents to protect our kids whether they think they need it or not. I don't know of any kid worth his or her salt who doesn't think they are grown up enough to make their own decisions.
Tools such as Wisechoice can allow you to have password protected times in which kids can use the computer but make the computer out of bounds at other times. You can track their messaging and restrict the types of websites they go to. In the case of the children who have accessed porn by mistake while searching for things regarding homework-that cannot happen with a good filter. If they inadvertently click on a porn site the filter will block access.
Filters for the most part cost about $50 per years and protect as many as three computers per household. Some will work on both Macs and Windows based computers. To paraphrase a hospital advertisement- of you don't get help from Wisechoice...then get help somewhere.
Showing posts with label child pornography. Show all posts
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Monday, December 12, 2011
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
13 age porn
One of the more revealing things are the search terms that people use when they are finding my filtering site. Tracking programs tell you what the search terms, the country of location, what they looked at ...the only thing they don't do is identify the actual user. In the case of the one using the search term "13 age porn", I would like to know who he is so I could set the FBI on 'em.
Just this morning I found the "13 age porn" search term for someone looking fore child porn. Another one was "hurt porn" which I suspect was looking for a sado-masochism site where men and/or women are tortured, raped and in some cases even killed . So what?
Since I am an old guy I can tell you that before the internet you simply could not find porn material that included 13 age porn, or torture, or bestiality. If it was even out there you would have to have inside contacts to even locate it much less look at it. Today however, all you have to do is type in the search term and tons of material instantly comes to your office or living room and where your particular character defect will be inflamed, perhaps to the point that one will go out and find a thirteen year old to try out in person.. There is no stopping the access to this on the internet so what can we do? What is the issue.
We can only be responsible for ourselves,at least that;s what the counselors say. I would submit that many of the sex criminals would never have engaged in these crimes if they has not be first exposed to a smorgasbord of this material on their websites. So again, I urge all of use to out a wall around ourselves so that we don't have top find out if we posses these flaws, so that we don't end up doing things we will regret for the rest of the our lives. Put a filter on your computer, stop it while you can and keep you r teenagers form getting to the material while their hormones are raging.....those who have ears to hear let them hear.
There are filters out there like our Wisechoice.net that will accurately and effectively keep you and your out of these sites while still providing full internet functionality. They are inexpensive and work great.
About the author: Since 1998 after nearly falling into this same trap I began to hunt for solutions for porn use by adults. I came up with a combination of a filtering technology and accountability reporting called Wisechoice.net. Rather than a solution designed for guarding children, Wisechoice is designed to protect husbands and marriages from porn. The addictive properties are such that putting a wall around ones self is often the only way short of getting rid of the computer entirely and it is effective. I would suggest checking our solution out or one of the other filters available.
Just this morning I found the "13 age porn" search term for someone looking fore child porn. Another one was "hurt porn" which I suspect was looking for a sado-masochism site where men and/or women are tortured, raped and in some cases even killed . So what?
Have you noticed that during the last twenty years that sexual crimes have sky rocketed? Children are abducted, sexually used and killed and literally thrown in the trash almost daily. Rape is through the roof and human trafficking is flourishing particularly in cities like Atlanta....Are there just more sex criminals being born or there something that is triggering behaviors at a new rate?
Since I am an old guy I can tell you that before the internet you simply could not find porn material that included 13 age porn, or torture, or bestiality. If it was even out there you would have to have inside contacts to even locate it much less look at it. Today however, all you have to do is type in the search term and tons of material instantly comes to your office or living room and where your particular character defect will be inflamed, perhaps to the point that one will go out and find a thirteen year old to try out in person.. There is no stopping the access to this on the internet so what can we do? What is the issue.
We can only be responsible for ourselves,at least that;s what the counselors say. I would submit that many of the sex criminals would never have engaged in these crimes if they has not be first exposed to a smorgasbord of this material on their websites. So again, I urge all of use to out a wall around ourselves so that we don't have top find out if we posses these flaws, so that we don't end up doing things we will regret for the rest of the our lives. Put a filter on your computer, stop it while you can and keep you r teenagers form getting to the material while their hormones are raging.....those who have ears to hear let them hear.
There are filters out there like our Wisechoice.net that will accurately and effectively keep you and your out of these sites while still providing full internet functionality. They are inexpensive and work great.
About the author: Since 1998 after nearly falling into this same trap I began to hunt for solutions for porn use by adults. I came up with a combination of a filtering technology and accountability reporting called Wisechoice.net. Rather than a solution designed for guarding children, Wisechoice is designed to protect husbands and marriages from porn. The addictive properties are such that putting a wall around ones self is often the only way short of getting rid of the computer entirely and it is effective. I would suggest checking our solution out or one of the other filters available.
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