.......Remember Ted Bundy?

Ted Bundy explains step-by-step to clinical psychologist, Dr James Dobson, how his interest in soft-core porn led on to an addiction to hardcore porn and then on to a fascination for hard-core violent porn and how that helped fuel and crystallise his homicidal sexual fantasies leading to numerous horrific sex crimes and murders. Bundy explains how repeated exposure to softcore porn can desensitise a person to hard core porn leading to porn addiction and he expresses his concern that other men exposed to the prevalent violent sexual content available in todays film and print media will be affected by such content as he was.


Theodore Robert ‘Ted’ Bundy (Nov 24, 1946 – Jan 24, 1989) raped and murdered scores of young women across the United States between 1974 and 1978. After more than a decade of vigorous denials, he eventually confessed to 29 murders, although the actual total of victims remains unknown. Typically, Bundy would rape his victims, and then murder them by bludgeoning, and sometimes by strangulation. He also engaged in necrophilia. He was convicted of killing 36 women and girls.

Yeah porn doesn't hurt anybody......

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A mother was jailed for 25 years after her daughter starved to death .....while she played an online game for hours at a time

Internet addiction has for the first time been linked with changes in the brain similar to those seen in people addicted to alcohol, cocaine and cannabis.  

 In a groundbreaking study, researchers used MRI scanners to reveal abnormalities in the brains of adolescents who spent many hours on the internet, to the detriment of their social and personal lives. The finding could throw light on other behavioural problems and lead to the development of new approaches to treatment, researchers said.

An estimated 5 to 10 per cent of internet users are thought to be addicted – meaning they are unable to control their use. The majority are games players who become so absorbed in the activity they go without food or drink for long periods and their education, work and relationships suffer.

Henrietta Bowden Jones, consultant psychiatrist at Imperial College, London, who runs Britain's only NHS clinic for internet addicts and problem gamblers, said: "The majority of people we see with serious internet addiction are gamers – people who spend long hours in roles in various games that cause them to disregard their obligations. I have seen people who stopped attending university lectures, failed their degrees or their marriages broke down because they were unable to emotionally connect with anything outside the game."

Although most of the population was spending longer online, that was not evidence of addiction, she said. "It is different. We are doing it because modern life requires us to link up over the net in regard to jobs, professional and social connections – but not in an obsessive way. When someone comes to you and says they did not sleep last night because they spent 14 hours playing games, and it was the same the previous night, and they tried to stop but they couldn't – you know they have a problem. It does tend to be the gaming that catches people out."

Researchers in China scanned the brains of 17 adolescents diagnosed with "internet addiction disorder" who had been referred to the Shanghai Mental Health Centre, and compared the results with scans from 16 of their peers.

The results showed impairment of white matter fibres in the brain connecting regions involved in emotional processing, attention, decision making and cognitive control. Similar changes to the white matter have been observed in other forms of addiction to substances such as alcohol and cocaine.

"The findings suggest that white matter integrity may serve as a potential new treatment target in internet addiction disorder," they say in the online journal Public Library of Science One. The authors acknowledge that they cannot tell whether the brain changes are the cause or the consequence of the internet addiction. It could be that young people with the brain changes observed are more prone to becoming addicted.

Professor Michael Farrell, director of the National Drug and Alcohol Research Centre, University of New South Wales, Australia, said: "The limitations [of this study] are that it is not controlled, and it's possible that illicit drugs, alcohol or other caffeine-based stimulants might account for the changes. The specificity of 'internet addiction disorder' is also questionable."

Case studies: Caught in the web

Xbox addict killed by blood clot after 12-hour sessions

Chris Staniforth, 20, died of a blood clot after spending up to 12 hours at a time playing on his Xbox. Despite having no history of ill health, he developed deep vein thrombosis – commonly associated with long-haul flight passengers. Mr Staniforth, from Sheffield, had been offered a place to study game design at the University of Leicester. But he collapsed while telling a friend he'd been having pains in his chest.

Toddler starved to death while mother played online

A mother was jailed for 25 years after her daughter starved to death while she played an online game for hours at a time. Rebecca Colleen Christie, 28, from New Mexico in the US, played the fantasy game World of Warcraft while her three-year-old daughter, Brandi, starved. The toddler weighed just 23lbs when she was finally rushed to hospital after her mother found her limp and unconscious.

Woman jailed after gamble fails to pay off

A woman who stole £76,000 from a company to fund her internet gambling addiction was jailed this week. Lucienne Mainey, 41, from Cambridgeshire, was sentenced to 16 months in prison at Ipswich Crown Court after admitting fraud. The court heard she secretly paid herself by changing old invoices. Mainey turned to internet bingo following the breakdown of her marriage.

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Story of a fourteen year old boy

...............Story of a fourteen year old boy..

Let’s get a grip people….teenagers who learn about sex on porn sites are seeing sexual practices that are unbelievable…. And after a steady diet of regular sex, homosexual sex, bestiality, diaper fetishes and the joys of being urinated on….they really don’t have any idea of what might be normal. All of the porn sites offering the above material are equally accessible through any internet connection. Let’s not forget the bondage and whipping sites as well as the rape sites (didn’t you know that women like being raped?) This could mix a 14 year old up. Do ya’ think? Moms are you listening

OK, 14 year old is now a newlywed and is still chowing down on his favorite porn practices. Sex at home is a little dull so let’s spice it up with some spanking or a little use of the leather. Ooops! Someone forgot to tell the young wife that this is fun. In fact it is scary! OK fill in the sexual practice as the young man who learned about sex on the internet wants spice things up. The most usual response these days to this kind of behavior is divorce….

So now our 14 year old is 29, divorced and frustrated. He has continued his practice of watching internet porn and as he becomes dulled to the new practices then he moves on to the joys of watching teenagers have sex and maybe the titillation of having sexual chats with underage kids….the next step is to call the kid up and arrange a date……

Then of course, how do folks get involved in child porn, as in sex with 8 year olds, four year old and even infants? It is the progression that comes from being exposed to crazier and crazier practices, getting to the point that it seems normalized, “isn’t everyone doing it?”

You don’t have to be a statistician to know that the amounts of rape, child porn, sexually motivated abduction and murder has exploded since the advent of the Internet. It is just the truth. The fourteen year old in my illustration will most likely end up in prison but not before harming numerous people during his decline.

Do yourself a favor if you are somewhere on this time line. Or if you have teenagers then put a wall around them. True they can get to this stuff at their friends house but not have a steady diet of these practices.

Install a filter with accountability like www.wisechoice.net for your kids put time limits on internet use. Stop this quickly. If you are already into this then stop where you are…the images fade and you can get off the obsession. It’s possible…it works

About the author Ned Dominick:Since 1998 after nearly falling into this same trap I began to hunt for solutions for porn use by adults. I came up with a combination of a filtering technology and accountability reporting called Wisechoice.net. Rather than a solution designed for guarding children, Wisechoice is designed to protect husbands and marriages from porn. The addictive properties are such that putting a wall around ones self is often the only way short of getting rid of the computer entirely and it is effective. I would suggest checking our solution out or one of the other filters available.

Thanks for reading this and if you have questions then email me at ned@wisechoice.net and we can talk it over.

...............Story of a fourteen year old boy..

Let’s get a grip people….teenagers who learn about sex on porn sites are seeing sexual practices that are unbelievable…. And after a steady diet of regular sex, homosexual sex, bestiality, diaper fetishes and the joys of being urinated on….they really don’t have any idea of what might be normal. All of the porn sites offering the above material are equally accessible through any internet connection. Let’s not forget the bondage and whipping sites as well as the rape sites (didn’t you know that women like being raped?) This could mix a 14 year old up. Do ya’ think? Moms are you listening

OK, 14 year old is now a newlywed and is still chowing down on his favorite porn practices. Sex at home is a little dull so let’s spice it up with some spanking or a little use of the leather. Ooops! Someone forgot to tell the young wife that this is fun. In fact it is scary! OK fill in the sexual practice as the young man who learned about sex on the internet wants spice things up. The most usual response these days to this kind of behavior is divorce….

So now our 14 year old is 29, divorced and frustrated. He has continued his practice of watching internet porn and as he becomes dulled to the new practices then he moves on to the joys of watching teenagers have sex and maybe the titillation of having sexual chats with underage kids….the next step is to call the kid up and arrange a date……

Then of course, how do folks get involved in child porn, as in sex with 8 year olds, four year old and even infants? It is the progression that comes from being exposed to crazier and crazier practices, getting to the point that it seems normalized, “isn’t everyone doing it?”

You don’t have to be a statistician to know that the amounts of rape, child porn, sexually motivated abduction and murder has exploded since the advent of the Internet. It is just the truth. The fourteen year old in my illustration will most likely end up in prison but not before harming numerous people during his decline.

Do yourself a favor if you are somewhere on this time line. Or if you have teenagers then put a wall around them. True they can get to this stuff at their friends house but not have a steady diet of these practices.

Install a filter with accountability like www.wisechoice.net for your kids put time limits on internet use. Stop this quickly. If you are already into this then stop where you are…the images fade and you can get off the obsession. It’s possible…it works

About the author Ned Dominick -Since 1998 after nearly falling into this same trap I began to hunt for solutions for porn use by adults. I came up with a combination of a filtering technology and accountability reporting called Wisechoice.net. Rather than a solution designed for guarding children, Wisechoice is designed to protect husbands and marriages from porn. The addictive properties are such that putting a wall around ones self is often the only way short of getting rid of the computer entirely and it is effective. I would suggest checking our solution out or one of the other filters available.

Thanks for reading this and if you have questions then email me at ned@wisechoice.net and we can talk it over.

..........How to see if Internet porn is being used at your house...

So if 50% of men on the Internet and 29% or women are using porn then what is the likelihood that it is happening at your house? Here are some ways to check and some clues..

. The first and most obvious way is to check the history on the computers in the house. To do this simply hit the CTRL key at the lower left of the keyboard and the letter H at the same time. This will bring up the history. Your computer is set up to record 20 days of history by default, so if there is no history showing then you can suspect that someone is covering their tracks. You can be sneaky and turn the history back on by going to the control panel, select Internet options and reset the time for the history. If it gets turned off again then you have reason to ask some questions.

Another red flag is if you are getting porn popup advertising or if your email is loaded with porn emails. When someone surfs to porn sites then most of them will send a cookie back to your computer. This cookie has the ability to install popup advertising, track your surfing habits and start sending spam.

If you seem to have these symptoms of porn use then you can start looking closer..check credit card bills for pay sites (although there are enough free porn sites to choke anyone). Also you can ask questions, or if it is your kids-move the computer to a public room so that they have to do their surfing in public.

Finally, the best solution is to take the issue off the table and install a quality Internet filter like www.wisechoice.net. A filter like wisechoice will allow you to block any porn sites and any other material you wish to regulate. It offers the free option of providing time controls for computer use. It offers at no extra charge a reporting system that will record the surfing history in a place where it cannot be erased. There are other option as well but it is a great tool. So check it out and see if this mess has come to your family.